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10 - Walk outside on the sidewalk

The origins of this classic yet underused sign of being a gentleman are fascinating. By keeping her on the inside in earlier times, she would remain under the overhanging second floor balcony, which would prevent a chamber pot from being emptied on her head. It's still a great way to protect a woman from puddles and traffic. Intelligent women may even understand the chivalry in this gesture. Now that you know, there is no excuse for missing this.

9 - Let her sit down first

In days gone by, it was considered appropriate for a gentleman to pull out a chair for his lady. Nowadays, this is considered a little bit too formal. As a gentlemanly gesture, you should instead ensure that your lady sits down before you do. Plus it makes her feel special and you will always get a smile!

8 - Watch your language

A very important point which is increasingly overlooked is inappropriate language. A gentleman should pride himself on being articulate, and be capable of expressing himself without resorting to crude vocabulary.

7 - Carry the umbrella

Holding the umbrella to keep a lady dry is a great way to demonstrate your excellent conduct. A gentleman should always be prepared for bad weather, and a good quality umbrella is an essential tool in your armory.

6 - Walk her home

Walking a lady home is an extremely important component of gentlemanly conduct. It may take you out of your way, but ensuring she gets home safely is your first priority. She will feel safer at the end of the evening if she knows she will be accompanied right to her front door, plus you might get a good night kiss!

5 - Offer your jacket

When a woman makes the considerable effort of getting dressed for a date, practicality is not always her first consideration. If you notice that it is a cold or wet evening, as a gentleman you should immediately offer her your jacket. Even if she doesn't accept at first offer again...

4 - Offer your seat

Everyone who has a sense of decency would not fail to offer their seat on a bus or train to an elderly person, or a pregnant woman. However, you can go one step further by offering your seat to your date. This is a good idea because you're showing that you care more about her welfare than your own.

3 - At the table, turn off your phone

It is consistently amazing just how many men will interrupt their date in order to take a phone call. This is among the very rudest things you can do to someone, date or not. When you're out with her you should make her feel like she is the most important person in the world.

2 - Introduce her

Much like taking a call and ignoring her, if you fail to introduce her to someone you bump into, she is left feeling isolated and uncomfortable. A gentleman will always make sure that his date is feeling comfortable, and an important part of this is having the social awareness to introduce her to your friend.

1 - Hold the door

When you do this it shows respect for other people, which reflects well on you as a person. As with all these gestures, making them a natural part of your behavior is essential to ensure that your date receives it positively.